Men you are created by God. You must love and obey your creator.
Woman was created from man. You must love and obey your man and the creator of  man. You will need a new heart and will receive that when you sincerely confess your sins to Jesus.

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the water through the word, and present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or blemish, but holy and blameless.

You cannot believe the miracles God will do in your life and your wife's, when you simply obey God. He has done that in my life and for my wife again and again. On the cross, as he was dying, Jesus asked God to furnish the Holy Spirit, so any man can know what God wants you to do. It is between you and God. When you fail, simply go back to Jesus, be forgiven, and start over.

1 John 1:8 If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

It is not the love for your wife, that causes you to obey her. It is your love for yourself.
If you truly loved her as you should, you would obey God, and give her the protection,
God will give you both, through your obedience.   The reward of lazy is hell.

Only God comes before your wife's needs!

Ask God to reveal his will for your life. If you ask, he has promised to answer.  "If any of you lacks wisdom, ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him"   (James 1:5). 

Husbands you can receive truth from God.   You can lead the marriage with God's help.
You are required by God to lead and protect!   A sin to submit leadership to another.
I guarantee you will see Eve in your wife and satan working as you try to obey God! 

When the devil knows your wife has control. He will try to get you to give up on her. God will help you when you ask and obey. The devil made Adam think of himself. Adam's battle was with the devil, not Eve. Man's
battle today is with the demons that control his wife.  Not her. If you are serious, about God? Ask God to guide you in fasting and praying. Again, once He tells you what to do,   DO IT! When you fail, go back to Jesus to be forgiven and start over again with God. Remember it is demons you battle, not her. Ephesians 6:12  We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of darkness, against spiritual wickedness in high places This is the wife God gave you. You have power over the demons, by the blood of Jesus Christ, that are trying to control you through her, if you stay true to God. The devil is using the weakness God gave her. The goal of the demons are to simply get you to disobey God, by allowing her to control you in some way. If you fail, this is spiritual death for you both and your family.

God has a special love for women, they are His creation, created as a weaker vessel. She is protected by God, and should never be abused by a man. She is not protected if you allow her to keep you from finding God's will and obeying!  You curse yourself, if you use her desire to please you and God for your own selfish weakness.

"This is an evil among all things that are done under the sun, that there is one event to all: yes, also the heart of the sons of men is full of evil, and madness is in their heart while they live, and after that they go to the dead." Ecclesiastes 9:3

Men, a great sin if you abuse a woman!  She was created weak so you would love her.  As Adam, you have
violated God's first rule.  To love God and protect her..  To say you love her for your own passion. 
is destroying her trust and taking advantage of her God- given weakness. God's gift to you.
You curse yourself and damage something God made special for man.


Talk to Jesus about your sins to be saved.  Then you will hear God through the Holy Spirit and obey. 

James 4:7  "Submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you." THIS IS YOUR BATTLE!! This day and forevermore!

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